Bullying Prevention
Understanding Bullying: What's the Difference?
Not every hurtful interaction is bullying, but that doesn't mean other harmful behaviors are acceptable. Understanding the difference between rude behavior, mean behavior, and bullying helps us respond the right way—and take bullying seriously every time.
Whether an incident is rude, mean, or bullying, students should always feel comfortable asking a trusted adult for help. You don't have to decide whether something meets the formal definition of bullying before reporting a concern.
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Something hurtful said or done without meaning to. It comes from not thinking about how our actions land on others.
SIGNS
- Accidental, not aimed at anyone
- Anyone can do it, any day
- Usually happens once
- Often from rushing, stress, or not noticing
EXAMPLES
- Cutting in line
- Talking over a classmate
- Forgetting to say “thank you”
- Bragging about a score or grade
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Something said or done on purpose to hurt someone — usually in the heat of the moment, once or now and then.
SIGNS
- Meant to sting
- Often driven by anger or jealousy
- One-time or occasional
- Can be repaired with an apology and changed behavior
EXAMPLES
- An insult during an argument
- Mocking someone’s outfit
- Laughing when someone trips
- Leaving a friend out to get back at them
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Hurtful behavior that is on purpose, repeated, and involves an imbalance of power. It can be physical, verbal, social, or online.
SIGNS
- Targets the same person over time
- One side has more power — size, age, popularity, or numbers
- Meant to scare, control, or shame
- The target feels unsafe and can’t easily make it stop
EXAMPLES
- Daily name-calling or threats
- Spreading rumors about someone
- Getting a group to shut someone out
- Pushing, tripping, or taking belongings
- Hurtful posts, texts, or group chats
See it? Hear it? Report it.
Tell a trusted adult at school, talk to a parent, or send an anonymous tip — for yourself or a friend. Report Bullying & Safety Concerns
